When Should My Kids Learn to Tie Their Shoes?
Discover when children typically learn to tie their shoes and find helpful tips to make teaching this essential skill easier and more enjoyable.


Updated August 14, 2023.
Tying shoelaces is a fundamental skill that children develop during their early years. To master this skill, children must acquire the fine motor skills needed, such as grasping small objects, manipulating them with their fingers, and coordinating their hands and fingers.
Children generally learn to tie their shoes between the ages of 4 and 7, although this can vary based on their development, interest, and individual circumstances.
If you're concerned about your child's ability to tie their shoelaces, look for signs that they're ready to learn, such as an adequate attention span, the ability to follow instructions, and the capacity to focus for short periods. If your child becomes easily frustrated or lacks the attention span to concentrate on the task at hand, it might be better to wait a bit longer before teaching them.
Engagement and motivation are factors that increase a child's likelihood of learning a new skill. If your child expresses an interest in tying their shoes or demonstrates a desire to learn, it's a good time to start teaching them.
Keep in mind that every child learns at their own pace, so don't worry if your child takes a bit longer than their peers to learn to tie their shoes. Be patient and offer plenty of encouragement and support as they work on perfecting this essential life skill.
How To Teach Kids To Tie Their Shoes
Make the learning process fun and motivational by allowing your child to practice tying shoelaces on your shoes first. Break the process into small steps, demonstrating each one slowly and clearly. Instruct children to use both hands while trying to tie their shoelaces, starting with laces that are easy to grip and control. Acknowledge and appreciate your child's attempts and successes, even if they don't get it perfect the first time.
Here are some of the methods to teach your kids to tie their shoelaces:
- Knot: Start by teaching your child how to tie a basic knot. Use a thick rope or ribbon to make it easier for them to see what you're doing. Show your child how to grip the shoelace ends in each hand, then cross the laces over each other, forming an "X" in the center. Make a loop with one lace by folding it over itself, and secure the loop with your fingertips. Create another loop with the other lace in the same manner. Cross the two loops over one another, then pull the loops in opposite directions to tighten the knot.
- Bunny ear: Hold the laces in your hands, creating a loop with one lace (the bunny's ear). Make a second bunny ear by forming another loop with the other lace. Cross the two loops over each other until the bunny ears touch. Tuck one bunny ear under the other, pull the tucked bunny ear over the other one, and tighten to form a knot.
- Wrap: Tie a simple knot with the laces but leave it loose. Wrap one loop around the other, as if going around a tree. Tuck the loop you wrapped around beneath the other loop and pull tight to make a knot.
Mastering the Art of Shoelacing
Patience and practice are key when teaching your child to tie their shoes. Remember to be patient and supportive as every child learns at their own pace. As you help them master this skill, consider exploring First Walkers' selection of children's shoes to ensure they have comfortable, well-fitting footwear that supports their growing feet during these important developmental years.
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